Rainbow

 

Like a rainbow , combination of shades reside within single personalities of people!

Some may agree to the statement while some may say I am sounding philosophical ‘’’ but the fact remains……the shades dominating the personality are visible and perhaps! Determines the whole personality .

 

Yet there may lie some subdued traits which come out like surprises from time to time and contradict the notions about ones personalities.

 

People in the first meeting are most presentable (exceptions being there) which they may remain for sometime but as time passes on their real nature overwhelms their representations .

The moment one encounters the revealed nature and tries to affirm his/her belief the next moment something novel is discovered . And the cycle of knowing and getting known keeps revolving like a vicious circle.

 

No matter whole lives, people may claim of knowing a person yet sometimes fail to fathom true self of their near ones. They keep living with perceptions thus formed ….

And thus make Halo effect about them !

 

It would be unjust to define a personality with few visible traits and club them under categories like ‘one is jolly person while another is a serious person’, or one is cunning and the other a plain one……..

 

As its a possibility that the serious person may have a sense of humor hidden…

And vice-versa..

 

Sometimes people stick to some images they might have created for themselves (may be unconsciously) and keep living with them for long to avoid reactions , which ought to occur whenever some change happens , be it a behavioral pattern.

 

Also sometimes people in environment, unconsciously keep them inspiring to behave the way they are by reminding them of the images they might have created for themselves and are known …

Is it that personalities are made of characteristics and emotions , which may have prevailed for long time in ones state of mind ?

If such mental states are molded then , is it possible to change personalities all together ?

Do such thought processes comes natural or they could be monitored …

This way are we all not exactly similar to each other when we all have bits of everything within us . !!!

Lets think about it!